2010:
The sin of silence - Apr 29, 2010
BDSM Safety - Jan 28, 2010
New server - Jan 14, 2010

2009:
Free software for a new PC - Dec 15, 2009
Fetlife Christmas time - Dec 7, 2009
Lost party etiquette - Nov 23, 2009
Our own worst enemy - Nov 3, 2009
Sing it Aretha... - Oct 20, 2009
Rumors and Reputation - Oct 7, 2009
Style over substance - Oct 6, 2009
Of Virtues and Values - Aug 7, 2009
Building blocks - Aug 3, 2009
Control Dramas in the Lifestyle - Jul 28, 2009
Why I AM poly and why I'm NOT monogamous - Jul 16, 2009
BDSM and the perpetual victim - Jun 28, 2009
Just having fun... - Jun 15, 2009
Back up - Apr 7, 2009
Moral activists - Mar 31, 2009
Got dem mad math skills... - Mar 26, 2009
What makes a good teacher? - Mar 26, 2009
Opinions are like... - Mar 23, 2009
What's a lifestyle? - Mar 23, 2009
To those who came before me - Mar 23, 2009
Sites - Mar 4, 2009
The nature of control - Mar 3, 2009
Oh, the shame of it all... - Feb 27, 2009
Death of a community - Feb 26, 2009
HPD and the lifestyle - Jan 20, 2009
Handouts posted - Jan 5, 2009

2008:
Fetlife giveaway - Dec 29, 2008
Slave rules - Dec 22, 2008
Oddities of serch engines - Dec 19, 2008
Perspectives on love - Dec 18, 2008
Addictions in the lifestyle - Nov 12, 2008
Work addiction - Nov 12, 2008
Idealistic idiots - Oct 3, 2008
Wrong way - Jul 18, 2008
Non-judgmental? - Jul 1, 2008
House of Wyrd - Jun 3, 2008
Musings of the future - May 15, 2008
Thinking for yourself - May 15, 2008
The illusion of reputation - Apr 25, 2008
D/s and emotional abuse - Apr 23, 2008
The quiet after - Apr 22, 2008
Just a few more days - Apr 12, 2008
BDSM Safety - Bondage - Mar 28, 2008
BDSM Safety - Impact Play - Mar 28, 2008
BDSM Safety - First session safety - Mar 20, 2008
BDSM Safety - Aftercare - Mar 20, 2008
BDSM Safety - Negotiations - Mar 17, 2008
BDSM Safety - Safe Words - Mar 17, 2008
BDSM Safety - Online - Mar 13, 2008
BDSM Safety - First time meetings - Mar 13, 2008
BDSM Safety - Emotional Safety - Mar 12, 2008
BDSM Safety - Warning Signs & Red Flags - Mar 12, 2008
BDSM Safety - Introduction - Mar 11, 2008
Passing of another great - Mar 5, 2008
BDSM & Sex - Feb 28, 2008
The lifestyle community - Feb 27, 2008
Playing with disabilities - Feb 22, 2008
The illusion of freedom - Feb 20, 2008
Age of consent - Feb 19, 2008
Nature vs nurture in BDSM - Feb 18, 2008
What is Mastery? - Feb 15, 2008
Center of the universe - Feb 13, 2008
Crafting - Feb 11, 2008
Hiding in plain sight - Feb 7, 2008
Monogamy - Feb 6, 2008
Reliability - Feb 1, 2008
True Service - Jan 24, 2008
When it rains it pours - Jan 22, 2008
Protocol, Etiquette & Ritual - Jan 18, 2008
Being Controversial - Jan 16, 2008
Sub Drop - Jan 14, 2008
Stark realities - Jan 11, 2008
Negotiations and where it falls down - Jan 7, 2008
Dungeon safety and consent - Jan 3, 2008
Gossip & Rumors - Jan 2, 2008
New Years - Jan 1, 2008

2007:
What do you want for Christmas? - Dec 20, 2007
Consent - Dec 19, 2007
Negotiations - Dec 5, 2007
The pitfalls of deception - Dec 4, 2007
Age and experience - Nov 19, 2007
On polyamorous love - Nov 15, 2007
What is a slave? - Nov 14, 2007
Other blogs - Nov 13, 2007
Happy Spanksgiving 2007 - Nov 12, 2007
Spam - Nov 8, 2007
Erotic Spanking - Oct 11, 2007
What is a Gorean slave? - Oct 8, 2007
ALT - Oct 4, 2007
What's in a word? - Sep 19, 2007
Rest in peace - Sep 18, 2007
Begging a collar - Sep 18, 2007
Eternal Jester - Aug 31, 2007
What is trust? - Aug 29, 2007
Memories of training - Aug 29, 2007
Stepping back - Aug 21, 2007
A lesson in manipulating the vote - Aug 21, 2007
Doing what is right - Aug 20, 2007
Being Gorean - Aug 17, 2007
Exclusive and elite - Jul 27, 2007
The edge - Jul 18, 2007
EGO vs confidence - Jul 16, 2007
Poems from 1998 - Jul 13, 2007
What price love? - Jul 13, 2007
Balance - Jul 13, 2007
What the? - Jul 13, 2007
blah - Jul 11, 2007
Perceptions - Jun 27, 2007
fetish - Jun 15, 2007
Relationships - May 23, 2007
Our mistakes - May 16, 2007
Patience - May 15, 2007
Looking back - May 10, 2007
Confessions of a courtroom yoyo part 1 - May 8, 2007
The nature of play - May 8, 2007
Hotel california - Apr 26, 2007
Little poem - Feb 23, 2007
Hosting - Feb 21, 2007
What is Honor - Feb 15, 2007
Fear - Feb 15, 2007
Outside help - Feb 6, 2007
Sleepless night - Feb 5, 2007
Waking nightmare - Feb 1, 2007
Morality - Jan 31, 2007
Playing chess with the universe - Jan 3, 2007
The trial - Jan 1, 2007

2006:
Limits - Nov 17, 2006
Happiness Patrol - Nov 16, 2006
Walking alone - Nov 16, 2006
Of purity and reality - Nov 13, 2006
Alone - Nov 10, 2006
Scene, Session or Play? - Nov 9, 2006
Consideration - Nov 6, 2006
Power is an illusion - Nov 6, 2006
Long time gone - Nov 2, 2006
Who is God? - Sep 15, 2006
From the mouth of madness, I spit at thee. - Sep 14, 2006
Is God sadistic? - Sep 10, 2006
Proper knife usage - Sep 5, 2006
Creativity with no outlet - Sep 3, 2006
Education - Sep 3, 2006
The nature of ADHD - Sep 2, 2006
The cost of a lie - Jul 26, 2006
The nature of power - Jul 25, 2006
Wisdom - Jul 24, 2006